I got to go to Escapade once in 2002 and had a great time. Met so many fan authors I loved in person and went to dinner with them. First time someone really fangirled me about my fics in an RL meeting too.
But then I got a job where February was their major crush time month so I couldn't take a vacation then during the two years working there. Then I got a new job doing a ton of work where I didn't often feel like I could get away for a few days at a time because my work would keep piling up undone while I was away. Then I got struck down by my brain compressing, had to stop working in the aftermath, and have been too poor ever since. The last time I had a vacation was 2009 when my Social Security back money finally arrived, and that was me driving to Massachusetts and staying in a friend's apartment, so my only expenses there were just a few tolls and the gasoline to drive there and back, and some meals.
(I also went to Connexions twice pre-everything that happened in the second paragraph but didn't enjoy it either time as much as I did Escapade.)
I'm having intermittent smartphone problems. I think that "somewhere" there was a message from you that you are getting in around [what time?]....
Colleen and I are getting in around 8:00 or 9:00 AM.
What with the problems I'm having with sending-and-receiving on my smartphone, I may be going back and forth between checking DW and checking email and checking texting.
I've been to ConneXions once and Escapade four times. I'm very committed to Escapade (I'm in charge of the Escapade Welcommittee).
Wish I'd been going to cons when you were there. Would have loved to tell you IRL of my <3 for your fic and to share stories about time spent in NOLA. (I <3 your "Borderlands -- One for Sorrow" series so much that I had commissioned a fanartist to do art of it and I had it displayed at Escapade last year when I did the "all due South art show".)
Darn it, I thought I'd already replied to thisⁿ... and I also thought you were already there last weekend. *is perpetually boggled by your festively con-crowded travel schedule*
ⁿ I did, actually, reply, but sadly it seems to have disappeared into the Internet ether. Boo.
I'm so sorry it took me a while to get back to you on this, but I spent a lot of time asleep during February....
I loved my one Escapade: it was so fun and welcoming and had many panels I enjoyed. With ConneXions my fen friends and I would sometimes take off to go shopping at the local mall or whatever for lack of content that interested us. It didn't help that my first ConneXions had a lot of panels that had a mail 'zine people (real fandom) vs. these spoiled, entitled kids on the internet who can get their slash fast and for free and don't appreciate it vibe. Also that when one person officially connected to the con found goth me and my two friends wandering around afterhours without our passes because it was afterhours, she told us we should always, always wear our passes, especially since we "didn't look like fans."
That would've been fun! Thank you so much. What did that art look like?
If you PM me with an email address for you, I'll send you a pic of the fanart that I commissioned Sekhmet (AKA Joyce of Requiem Publications) to do for your "Borderlands -- One for Sorrow".
Bummer about your ConneXions experience...fen judging each other as "real fandom" or not, judging each other as "looking like fans" or not. If time and health should allow you to attend another con, I hope you will choose Escapade (and LMK if there's anything I can do from my Escapade Welcommittee position to increase the likelihood of that).
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Date: 2020-02-19 07:08 am (UTC)Is Escapade one of the cons you used to attend?
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Date: 2020-02-19 07:12 am (UTC)And LOL for you iocn.
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Date: 2020-02-19 07:17 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2020-02-19 07:19 am (UTC)(Also, excited to see you in the auction to benefit Australia Fire Relief. Maybe I'll get in a winning bid.)
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Date: 2020-02-19 07:25 am (UTC)But then I got a job where February was their major crush time month so I couldn't take a vacation then during the two years working there. Then I got a new job doing a ton of work where I didn't often feel like I could get away for a few days at a time because my work would keep piling up undone while I was away. Then I got struck down by my brain compressing, had to stop working in the aftermath, and have been too poor ever since. The last time I had a vacation was 2009 when my Social Security back money finally arrived, and that was me driving to Massachusetts and staying in a friend's apartment, so my only expenses there were just a few tolls and the gasoline to drive there and back, and some meals.
(I also went to Connexions twice pre-everything that happened in the second paragraph but didn't enjoy it either time as much as I did Escapade.)
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Date: 2020-02-19 07:27 am (UTC)Colleen and I are getting in around 8:00 or 9:00 AM.
What with the problems I'm having with sending-and-receiving on my smartphone, I may be going back and forth between checking DW and checking email and checking texting.
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Date: 2020-02-19 07:32 am (UTC)*stares at your icon and wonders what's the meaning of the red dot*
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Date: 2020-02-19 07:48 am (UTC)Wish I'd been going to cons when you were there. Would have loved to tell you IRL of my <3 for your fic and to share stories about time spent in NOLA. (I <3 your "Borderlands -- One for Sorrow" series so much that I had commissioned a fanartist to do art of it and I had it displayed at Escapade last year when I did the "all due South art show".)
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Date: 2020-02-20 01:25 am (UTC)Yes, I sent it to your email.
Ali aka Raine Wynd
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Date: 2020-02-20 04:13 am (UTC)Don't leave for the Greek restaurant without us.
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Date: 2020-02-20 09:26 pm (UTC)ⁿ I did, actually, reply, but sadly it seems to have disappeared into the Internet ether. Boo.
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Date: 2020-02-20 10:31 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2020-02-22 02:32 pm (UTC)Fun fact! WTNV was the first fandom I got into because of tumblr!
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Date: 2020-03-03 08:50 am (UTC)I loved my one Escapade: it was so fun and welcoming and had many panels I enjoyed. With ConneXions my fen friends and I would sometimes take off to go shopping at the local mall or whatever for lack of content that interested us. It didn't help that my first ConneXions had a lot of panels that had a mail 'zine people (real fandom) vs. these spoiled, entitled kids on the internet who can get their slash fast and for free and don't appreciate it vibe. Also that when one person officially connected to the con found goth me and my two friends wandering around afterhours without our passes because it was afterhours, she told us we should always, always wear our passes, especially since we "didn't look like fans."
That would've been fun! Thank you so much. What did that art look like?
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Date: 2020-03-03 09:10 pm (UTC)Bummer about your ConneXions experience...fen judging each other as "real fandom" or not, judging each other as "looking like fans" or not. If time and health should allow you to attend another con, I hope you will choose Escapade (and LMK if there's anything I can do from my Escapade Welcommittee position to increase the likelihood of that).
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Date: 2020-03-03 09:11 pm (UTC)It was an excellent con experience!